Who reaches out first, and why that matters
Log who started each connection and see initiation balance before a friendship goes one-sided.
Friendships rarely end with a fight. More often they thin out. One person texts first, suggests the call, and makes the plan. The other is glad when it happens, and rarely starts it. Over months, the initiator gets tired. The other person never sees the imbalance until it is too late.
Most contact tools only store a last-talked date. That number cannot tell you who made the effort.
Initiation balance adds direction to Log connection. Keep the default You, or choose Them or Not sure. Memlane keeps a short history and shows balance over the last ten directed logs on the contact page. When a Reach-out nudge fires and you have been starting almost everything, Queue context can show that pattern beside the nudge.
Treat it as a mirror.
Try it on the next real conversation. Steps are in Log a connection.